Accepting Transition in Your Life!

Sep 17, 2012   //   by Richard Figueira   //   Blog, East Bay, East Providence, Lincoln, Rhode Island, Marriage, Mental Health, News, Self Help, cranston  //  No Comments

At Anchor Counseling Center we help people quite often with transitions in their life.

Adjusting to a transition is an experience that allows us all to grow in many different ways.  Transition: movement, passage, or change from one position, state, stage, subject, concept, etc.,to another; change: the transition from adolescence to adulthood.
We all experience it, even daily…transition. A myriad of options allowing us to choose our daily path. We sometimes move along with ease, other times with trepidation, and still others with impulsivity, but all with consequences. Life is never really the same.

What’s your acceptance of transitions? Different, difficult, delicious? I think of transition as possibility, as layers of mystery peeling and revealing a life unfolded. Looking for that which must be articulated in order to propel one self into the world. Of course, not without that familiar armor arising, the sting of abandon, of resistance, of not belonging, of wanting to fix, of not knowing but wanting to.

I try to face this incredible period of life with exploration and personal freedom and see how much a theme of transition has in my life. Just as I begin to get comfortable, kaboom! It changes. A pattern of living that has the possibility of both good and bad choices. I’m moving into it and away from it at the same time, just being in the present. I welcome that change, but I also mourn the loss of the other. It’s important to also find a way to continue to find space to be quiet and investigate inwardly the meaning of it all.

So lets remember that life is Movement. Change is always present. That really is all there is. Nothing stays the same except the space to transition and to choose.

Ask yourself: what was I was born to do, right now? Explore it, share yours, your meaning, your heart. There’s always someone ready to hear it and understand as they are on an adventure full of transition too.

Written by Catherine Cummins, LHMC

Anchor Counseling Center

If you or someone you know can benefit from speaking to someone about this very subject of transition and life changes, please call 401-475-9979 or visit our website @ www.AnchorCounselingCenter.com

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